Love the land
Let Your Child Know and Love the Land Addiction to the artificial world has even degenerated the meaning of vacation. Now vacation is only perceived as a change of location. You go to a seaside and sit there doing nothing. You also prevent the kids from going about their business. What do you think about this understanding which repeats that same lifestyle in winter and how it influences our children?
Nora Nomi talking about the vacation she had with her son in his column, said the following: “What is the condition of the children? They are scared of flies, fish, seaweeds and cats… They faint when they have a scratch on the knee as if it is broken. They love Actionman’s and Bionicle’s VCDs very much, yet they are afraid to watch these alone, and due to fear, they never leave you alone in the hottest days of summer! When this is the case, I also feel sick. It is not only Sinan, there are other boys facing the same fears. As far as I know, the girls are not that different either. I even hear that there are girls who cannot step on grass. “To be honest, their fears disturb me very much. As a typical example, for Sinan to put his feet in the sea took us one week. I do not think we will make any further progress from now on, because he told us that he will learn how to swim at a pool.” (*) The children I watch are those who prefer the swimming pool to the sea, those always eating chips and drinking cola and do not know how to walk. “I hate all trees and flowers,” an 11-year-old boy was screaming because he was scared of a butterfly. He really did not like the countryside and loathed being in the street. He said he only liked his computer and computer games. Parents do not allow their children, who take the school bus, to go anywhere else without a car. This generation that is not used to walking and hates walking, is fat and cowardly; it is alienated from nature. I see an anger crisis and terror in the children who have become slaves to the artificial world. Parents who immediately give in to this terror only wish to put off their children. Of course, the formula of putting off kids by doing whatever they demand, instead of doing the right thing, does not work. If generations become alienated from nature, they are alienated from their cultures as well. We have to understand this. I see that those little faces glued to computer screens or joystick do not care about anything other than winning or losing. When I was a child, we used to have picnics on Sundays, go to the summerhouse during school breaks. We all examined the sea, insects, vineyards and tobacco fields. I had bought a small microscope and examined all kinds of insects I found under my microscope. I used to watch how flowers blossomed during the mornings and evenings. I used to embrace trees and run after animals. My parents even bought a rabbit, a squirrel, a bird, a cat, chicks and finally a lamb to make us love them. I did the same thing for my daughter. We had a turtle, rooster and chickens laying eggs for her. We lived in a house with a garden with her for four years. When we were a planting tree in the garden, we also called her to watch. Introduce Mother Earth to your children. Teach them to cherish Her and how to plant a young tree. Children should learn how to protect and love Mother Earth. Summer camps may be organized for them; I sent my daughter to these camps. She lived with nature. She got acquainted with lizards and worms and learned that she shared the same world with them. I surprisingly noticed in one of my seminars held for adults that they are the ones alienated from nature the most. The greatest fear in the world is not to be loved; however, our people are afraid of all kinds of animals. This is also a problem for adults. Apartments do not only epitomize crooked and ugly constructions, they also alienate people from nature. They alienate people from people and people from nature. Probably, the West encountered this because of industrialization, but why should we? We should teach children how to pump water from a well, carry water [in a bucket], walk and climb by taking them to mountain pastures. Those children who grow up in automobiles without growing any muscles will be “cowards” as Nomi says, and alienated from themselves. Think about your children while having a vacation this year. Consider their world and their future. A vacation might be a tool for them to learn social and cultural values. Exactly the opposite to this, it is not a period of time that we take a “break” from everything. We should think very much about this generation that is not nourished naturally, does not recognize the natural world, is afraid of the roughness of the land, does not like the taste of water and does not want the sea. Hug a tree and put your ears on it. Let your child put his/her ear on the tree to make him/her hear what you heard. He/she will hear the voice of tree. He/she will embrace love while hugging the tree. Rage will give way to compassion. (*) Hurriyet Saturday Supplement July 16, 2005